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[quote=Anonymous]STOP SHARING! Seriously, I have a friend who goes on and on about how expensive everything is and how broke they are. And then she books a vacation to Europe with first class plane tickets. I've finally told her to either stop complaining how they "are so broke" or stop talking about vacations No need to tell her you're constantly sick. either. Look, I get it. I have a mom who used to be like that (I finally told her if she didn't get therapy I was cutting her out of my life). My therapist kept stating over and over again that I had to set boundaries, which meant not oversharing with my mom. She couldn't call me a selfish/horrible mom if I didn't tell her that DS was spending the night with a babysitter and DH and I were going away. If you're not ready to cut her off, fine, I get it. But you do have some control here and whether or not you can assert that control without the help of a therapist is up to you to decide. [/quote]
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