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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you're being unfair.

You really shouldn't married a sweet, sensitive guy if you didn't want that. Now you're stuck with a perfectly nice man who you don't seem to want. And he's stuck with a woman who doesn't accept who he is and dislikes aspects of his personality that are central to who he is.

[b]He's not going to be able to change. This is just who he is. And he really shouldn't have to change. There's nothing wrong with him. [/b]

I'm not sure what to suggest. If you don't have kids, maybe you should divorce before you start becoming contemptful of him.

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Amen to the bolded.

As for the sexual side, OP, have you tried communicating explicitly what you would like to happen? Did you say it out loud, no hinting, plain words? For example: "It would turn me on if you would grab my wrists and hold me down while we're having sex. You don't need to be afraid to hurt me. It's something I crave. We'll have a safeword I'll use if it gets to be too much, so you'll know you need to stop/tone it down. It would mean a lot to me if we could try that." Did you tell him such things? What was his response?[/quote]

He cried.[/quote]

Is this the Boehner family?[/quote]

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