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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP HERE.Thank you all for your input. I'm just si overwhelmed. I am a SAHM again. We both decided that the tween and teen years should have parent cover. Also we are older parents so I am now 48 and I've cut ties with the company that kept my job open through both my long maternity leaves because I didnt think I would ever go back.

I am on my husband's visa and a divorce/separation would require me to leave the country in 120 days. All 3 kids are in very good hard to get into schools and I don't think it's fair on them to uproot them from all that's familiar and from their father whom they love.  A Frightful mess. I really can not  believe this is my life. [/quote]

OP,

A big virtual hug to you! I am also on my husband's visa and the one time I seriously considered divorcing my husband this factored heavily into the equation. The sad reality is that non-citizens cannot get the same protections as citizens, and this hurts dependents in abusive relationships, private and professional (I've known many foreign grad students forced to work like slaves because their visa status was held over their heads).

The problem right now is not the deed to this house. The real problem is to find a job again, any job, that gives you your own work visa. I know how hard it is to get a job! Call in all favors, pull all the strings you can. Then you don't have to leave the country if you get divorced.

Best of luck to you. I hope not to be in your shoes. I've come so close in the past!
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