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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for all the responses. I am sending a gift not cash. I could see how people thought I was holding things over their head for an invite. I don't see it that it way. I see it as we are close enough to be the go to people for all issues financial..and there are a lot and the one time and I do mean one time they could do something nice for us they aren't. I would never bring up things I have done for them to them, I am bringing it up on an anonymous forum for context why I am hurt. I do think maybe some people may have pushed for invites for their kids, I agree that is pushy and I would not do that. I am sort pondering is if it is fair for me to be hurt and is it something I talk about in terms of why I am not going. I would not accept a  kids invite after the fact and realize if I brought this up it would escalate. As for Mother's day--well that is a holiday our family assigns a lot of value to. We have little rituals and the kids get excited. So I have closure that I do want to be with my kids on Mother's day. Anyway..thanks for all the many perspectives. Sorry I am not a writer..doing the best I can.[/quote]
Wow -- are you 12?
If you offer to take people on vacations because that is a gift you want to extend to them -- then quid pro quo should not even be in your mind, anonymous forum or not.
Who wants to lug their kids to a family wedding anyway?
You sound a bit petty and immature[/quote]

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