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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you sure the grandfather is not molesting your step daughter?

Are you really, really sure?

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I have a feeling OP is suspicious (which is why he wants to set boundaries), but didn't want to express the horrible thought in words. I'd be suspicious too, though it could just be that grandpa is a control-freak. Either way, get out now.[/quote]

Any intelligent person would be a fool not to be suspicious.  The first thing I thought when I read the OP was that the poor little girl is being molested. OP needs to get her away from that grandfather as soon as possible.[/quote]

Ditto.

OP, GTFO and set up boundaries NOW. Talk to your wife to make sure you guys are on the same page, boundary-wise. Is SD's father in her life? If so, does he have a relationship with your wife where they have discussed these issues with the grandparents?

If I were you, I would never let SD sleep over there again. I would SEVERELY limit the amount of time that SD sees them (as long as it's ok with DW and SD's father). And definitely do the same with your baby on the way.

Some states have grandparents' rights laws, so if these people are particularly litigious then you should be prepared for crazy. Start documenting everything now, just to be safe. Too bad you can't install some type of alarm on SD's door re: the grandpa sleeping thing (eugh, shudder).

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