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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand you can't force it, and I have a FIL who chooses not to engage with our kid with no physical inability to do so, but why do they bother to visit then? What exactly do they think is going to happen on a visit to a house with very young children who can't do museum visits and such. My ILs have the expectation that our 4 year old, whom they have no interest in reading to, watching a show with, anything, should be silent and leave them in complete peace while they read their books or play on their iPads. In our house. If she so much as asks one of us, not them as she has long stopped trying, to read, play or take her to the park, they sigh audibly and roll their eyes at the interruption. Why visit? What purpose does it serve?[/quote] So they can tell their friends that they visited you. If you don't want them to visit, just let them know.[/quote] Pp your ils should stay at a hotel and you and you dh should only bother to meet them for a meal or two. They are guests in your home but treat your dc rudely. I would not let them treat my child like a second class citizen.[/quote]
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