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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. Mom works outside the home. Dad eats small portions of everything and I think does not eat much during the day. I am fully aware the behavior is sickening. I don't think neice is in any physical harm. He is fully functional all day long. After the drink, he does the weird dinner ritual and then goes upstairs to bed. I think if I refused to be a party to it I would get a lecture about not being a dutiful daughter (parents are immigrants from Asia) and a guilt trip about how dad is old and I should look after him better. The whole situation makes my blood boil.[/quote] Asian chances this. Caring for your father(as in feed him) is a big part of the older traditions. You will not be able to change your mother on this. She will take your fathers side. Go lightly here. You may need to spend a lot more time with them to understand what's going. Could he be sick?[/quote]
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