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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if you moved her in, things will probably get a lot worse and fast. When people tell you something, believe them. I think at this point you are probably too scared to throw away a two year relationship. It's an investment, I get it. But this is not the right relationship for you or the kids. They need someone who will care about them and this woman clearly does not. [b]You are better off alone until you find someone who values your children. [/b] [/quote] This a million times over. [b]Find a good woman--not a girl.[/b] I hope you find a partner who will love you and your kids.[/quote] FYI- not every good woman wants kids.[/quote] No one is saying that but she also should not need nightly, emotionally draining debriefing from the experience of normal daily life with her boyfriend's children. She may not want kids, but she can't act like one either. He has finite energy. At their age it should be spent on the kids. [b]Not dramatic nutjobs.[/b][/quote] What are you seeing that makes her a nutjob?[/quote]
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