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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if you moved her in, things will probably get a lot worse and fast.  When people tell you something, believe them.  I think at this point you are probably too scared to throw away a two year relationship.  It's an investment, I get it.  But this is not the right relationship for you or the kids.  They need someone who will care about them and this woman clearly does not.  [b]You are better off alone until you find someone who values your children. [/b] [/quote]

This a million times over.  Find a good woman--not a girl.

I hope you find a partner who will love you and your kids.[/quote]

OP's girlfriend sounds like a perfectly good woman- one good enough to know her preferences and limitations. She doesn't need to be denigrated because she's not up for this major change in the relationship dynamic.[/quote]

I think she is perfectly fine not ever wanting children.  I wish more people would be honest with themselves and just not have kids if they are not ready or just don't want kids. However, to be in a relationship with a man who has two and talk about moving in with him knowing that she doesn't care for his kids is beyond selfish to me.  Immature at least.  And cry and whine because they come first.  What?  Give me a break. [/quote]

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