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[quote=Anonymous]You need to politely go your own ways.  Yes, the original situation was manageable, but life has a way of changing and your current life and her life are not compatible and trying to force them to coexist is not fair to anyone.  There will be many compromises made by all (your children, your GF and you) that are not fair to anyone involved.  It is time to agree that you two are not currently a good match and move on.  You are correct that you need to place your children first.  If she moves in, then you will be forced to make some compromises that no longer put them first.  If you don't, then you will be relegating her to a second class citizen in her own home.  If you find a way to make everyone else compromise, you will find yourself caught in the middle far too often and will end up compromising yourself in trying to please your children and GF.  Really, as much tension and issues as you are having now, you will have many more fold if she moves in and no solution after that will be pleasing to anyone.

Please do all of you a favor and let this relationship go.  You deserve a partner who will be able to be supportive of you as a father.  She deserves a partner who can place a priority of her and their relationship.  Your kids deserve a household that is conducive to raising young adults.  None of you will get any of this if you allow the relationship to continue and allow her to move in.[/quote]

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