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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your husband by chance from a culture where treating the female partner like a pack mule is normal and acceptable? Also you say he was rude pre marriage, why did you marry him? Rich?[/quote] OP, do you stay home? He might just see that you have established the kids and household as your domain and earning money and taking on mantle of breadwinner is his role. I assume you handle the kids fine every day and he figures why try to meddle with your process. Just like if you came to his office you wouldn't offer to type his memo for him. Does he have a big job, while you had more arts/nonprofit job? You may not see this but work is very siloed and isolated in big law and such. They have minions for everything, and he is expected to focus on his domain to maximize productivity. Same idea when home, this is not his domain. [/quote]
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