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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH and his brother need to take more of a lead in this. Honestly, if your MIL usually stays with you, then let her do that. To change up now to someone she hates would seem like a slap in the face, even tho that is not your intention. Your kids can go see gramps at the hotel, seriously, it's not rocket science on that one. [/quote] Yes. It's one thing (a good thing) to invite FIL and wife to the celebration. But if MIL always stays with you and this time you evict her in favor of FIL, it's going to make a tricky situation 1000% worse. And I agree that your husband should be handling the discussions, even if you are the "host" (doesn't the home belong to both of you?). It's his family.[/quote] If you get BIL to deal with at least the initial "who will stay where" part of things, think what a favor you are doing for BIL's future spouse.[/quote]
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