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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]woman here. when I did online dating, usually the easiest for me was a drink after work. If there was chemistry, could be extended, but dinner was not expected. I also had coffee dates, always felt a little more awkward, not sure why. I had a couple activity first dates too, but you are taking a chance if it is a long activity. fwiw, met DH online. We chatted only a little online, met up at the arboretum....I had plans that evening, but ended up canceling because after the arboretum, we had coffee, then a drink, then dinner, then another drink......it turned out to be a 9 hour date![/quote] I totally relate to this. I met my now DH online and we exchanged enough emails that I knew he was going to be intelligent and charming. We had also exchanged photos. He asked me to dinner. We sat at the bar first (table wasn't ready when we arrived) and had a drink, and then we had dinner and then we went for a long walk. It ended up being a 6 hour date, and we were talking the whole time. Then he walked me to my car and checked up to make sure I got home ok and followed up with an email the next day thanking me for a lovely evening. I think if you're at all on the fence, the after work drink sounds fine. But I like that my guy went all in and asked for a dinner. Even if we'd had no chemistry, it would have been only 1.5 hours of my life. [/quote]
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