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[quote=Anonymous]sorry OP but she's probably just thinking that she's being "nice" when in fact she's not being direct and you have to interpret her vague signals. It was not until my early/mid 30s that I realized it was far better to be upfront and tell someone, in a kind but direct way, "thanks for your interest, but I don't think we're a match" or something to that effect. It was far better than avoiding contact or sending equivocal signals, but a lot of women are socialized to be 'nice' and to worry about hurting feelings, so the direct approach is difficult for them. When a woman is interested she will let you know. She will flirt, she will up the ante, she will find a way of making it known that she wants to be asked out (if she doesn't do the asking herself). [/quote]
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