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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also just to add in case anyone was wondering, we have been married 12 years and having children and childcare in general is definitely the primary issue we have.  We both agree we have to find a better medium to be a team on this issue to really make things work.  We also would like more alone time/ date nights but sitters have been hard to come by for that.  He is also planning a vasectomy and I think this is definitely a good idea.[/quote]

It sounds like you're able to define the problem relatively narrowly, and that means it may be details you both have to list and find compromises on - a therapist could be a big facilitator in that.  The fact that you are still attracted to each other and have a healthy sex life bodes really well.  It may be painful and take a while, and will probably involve both of you giving in on a number of issues to reach a compromise, but if you are both willing to work at it, reach a compromise and then stick to it - to honor (repsect) each other by sticking to the agreement - you might emerge stronger.  Good luck![/quote]

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