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[quote=Anonymous]I've posted something similar.  The downstairs bathroom was/is basically my DH's 'man cave'.  He's in there at least 3x a day.  He's got an extension cord for the laptop and a stool he sets it on.  He's also got books/magazines and a phone charger.  He's always had bowel issues - about 20 minutes after eating, he needs to hit the toilet.  But, what OP is talking about and what my DH is/was doing isn't 'normal'.  My DH suffers from depression and going into his man cave is one way he can avoid home life.  His depression/behavior causes huge issues in our marriage.  It waxes/wanes depending on his mindset. This avoidant behavior is something we talk about with our relationship counselor.  Oh, it's also where he chew tobacco.  That was another thing that was an issue.  I understand he's got a tobacco habit but when he was gaslighting me about it, shit hit the fan. I would ask him about that tobacco smell and he'd deny, deny,deny.  Yet, he'd have all these health complaints.  Finally, I told him I was so concerned that I'd made an appointment with the gasteroenterolgist and was going to go with him to the appointment.  That's when he fessed up.  Yeah, we've got a lot of problems in our marriage.  I should just divorce his ass. He doesn't deserve me.  But, I digress.[/quote]

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