Reply to Ex hubby's girlfriend moved in and didn't tell me

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Ex hubby's girlfriend moved in and didn't tell me"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]She is upset because she has no control over her ex husband's life, period.  Her daughter lying was probably just rehearsed behavior due to this woman's obvious anger issues and not being able to let go …. probably not the first time her daughter sought to keep the peace by just staying quiet.  This is not a fiancé or new wife, it is a girlfriend, and truly none of the ex wife's business .. pretty creepy to be using that type of language over a simple open conversation btw, says everything about the person, don't you think?  If there is an open line of communication between exes, have a cup of coffee and talk, otherwise the relationship is so strained for obvious reasons that privacy is best at both ends.  Seen it many times in the past with girlfriends, sometimes it is just best to be on neutral terms with the children and stay out of each others lives beyond the children.  Unless the ex husband has shown evidence of being and abusive parent in the past, you loved him enough to have a child, love him enough to allow him to parent and for goodness sake stop making your child feel like she has to protect your precious feelings where ever her relationship with her father is involved. Clearly this is what is going on, not the fact that he asked your daughter to lie, find that communication with your ex, you are tied together for the rest of your life and this jealousy and pettiness will destroy the children.  Really, put the child first, communicate and move on … acceptance is everything.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics