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[quote=Anonymous]I think roles are fine, and the fact that they may often fall the the traditional gender is likely due to the fact that we're still learning as a society that women can weld and men can dance ballet. In our house, I do all the cooking. It's not because I'm the woman, but because we would be eating at midnight or getting food poisoning regularly if DH cooked. He's the primary driver because I'm an excellent passenger who prefers to sight see than be pissed off at other drivers. That being said, I'd rather hurl myself down a flight of 50 concrete stairs than iron, so DH does that. I'm an early bird, so I take out the garbage. We both do construction on the house. I do most of the gardening, but he digs the holes because for some reason it makes him feel like he accomplished something "manly", so I throw him that bone if he's home. If he's not, I am aware of how to use a shovel (or a drill, or a I guess lesson is: every couple makes it work. Some fall into traditional gender roles, which is cool if they both like that role. Some refuse gender roles based on the fact that they are (eg. I had a coworker who REFUSED to cook because she would "never" agree to do woman's work). Some do a little bit of each. I think as long as the couple is happy (or at least accepting) of how it's worked out is fine, [/quote]
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