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Reply to "He says he's old-fashioned, but keeps letting me set up dates, and pay"
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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe, "old fashioned" means he actually likes the dating "process" vs just meeting to hook up. An equitable payment arrangement for meals removes any expectations which might arise if he always pays. 50/50 keeps it as simple as possible. Nobody "owes" anybody anything. Allowing you to choose the restaurant is an acknowledgement and concession on his part because he knows he is more limiting and does not want to unfairly constrain your experiEnce. Not asking for your phone number is showing respect for your privacy. Since he already has a means to contact you it is not relevant. Any sparks on your side? If not, move on. Three dates is plenty of time to know.[/quote]
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