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Reply to "I told my husband I want to start seeing other people."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP I have no idea how old you are but both you and your husband sound very immature. Baby steps to detachment? What weird psychobabble. If he won't engage on any level you need to get into counseling and see if perhaps the way you are approaching him is pushing him away from engaging. Not that I'm blaming you; your DH committed adultery and his subsequent behavior is very passive aggressive. Or you need to see a lawyer, protect yourself financially, then walk. You sound like you really don't want to make hard decisions--much like your DH--and want to escape the problem by going out with other men. Time to become an adult. Squarely face the situation and dispassionately assess it, make non-emotional decisions that are in your best interests financial and otherwise, and move on. BTW the ability to delay gratification is the hallmark of a mature person.[/quote]
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