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[quote=Anonymous]Over 20 years into a marriage like what you describe, OP. I really wish I had not don't the bulk of things just because I had the time and was being "helpful". We moved out of state twice in the last several years, and I did 90% of everything for the moves before, during, and after them. I hardly slept because I was so busy with them, while he hung out with his friend, etc. I asked and then demanded more help during, and he refused. I have so many more examples for you, but I'll stop there. Change the dynamic NOW and stick to it. See if he can step up and be a grown-up. If he can't, ask yourself if you want to be with that the rest of your life. [/quote]
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