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Reply to "Spouse can't do anything on his own"
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[quote=Anonymous]There are good reasons for you doing things and him not. You have time and access to information/Internet to do some things that he does not have. But clearly he abuses this and takes advantage of you to do all of it. Rather than cut him off cold turkey which could cause issues for your household, just selectively cut him off. You handle things that are time critical that he can't get to (calling the HVAC guy when your furnace stops working in winter, etc). But anything that isn't urgent or time critical "I'm sorry, I can't get to that" and you only worry about it if it becomes important to you. If it isn't, then leave it to him to do or not do. He'll get the idea when his priorities are not your priorities and may or may not get done until you're ready to do it.[/quote]
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