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[quote=Anonymous]I'm teary and disgusted and grateful to have found this thread. My MIL needs personal help. I got a raised toilet seat for her and it's routinely covered in feces that she clearly tries to wipe off but doesn't get all of it. My husband just talked her into wearing an adult diaper to bed. She goes through 3-4 pairs of pants and underwear daily. She'll visit for a week at a time and sponge bath herself while sitting on a couch in the guest room, which now reeks of diarrhea and is stained with the outline of her butt. I bought a shower seat but she won't use it. I don't think she actually does shower at home anymore. She smells and my kids just started to notice. How on earth do I raise this with her? Do I? My husband is tapped out now - the adult diaper conversation was all he had in him. What help do I even offer her? Thanks for reading.[/quote]
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