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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You either make peace with having a not good enough meal, putting wrong pants on the child, taking her to the wrong park and feeding her the wrong snack or you will be stuck forever doing everything by yourself because only you can do it perfectly up to your own standards. The children suffer from tensions in the marriage. Decide what matters to you and let go of the rest, he needs space and encouragement to pull his own weight. Even if something is done crooked - give praise and move forward, together.[/quote] OP Here - Goodness, I enjoy cooking! Food isn't the issue! It's that I end up watching DD while I cook while DH sits on the couch on his phone or laptop (browsing the web, not working). I mentioned that last night again (after I asked him again to join me for counseling, which he agreed this time) and he immediately got up and played with her. We talked a bit after she went to bed and agreed we need to shuffle some things around (chores and what not), get a better schedule going (setting specific time that's just hime and DD), and talking to someone about our obvious intimacy issues. Fingers crossed this time things change.[/quote]
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