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[b]I can't put my finger on it, but I almost feel abused.[/b]
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Wut?

OP, your post is a royal insult to people who actually have suffered emotional/psychological abuse in relationships. I agree with others that you sound very needy/insecure, and this is something within yourself that you need to figure out - not constantly gasiight your DH to reassure you. Truthfully, your post reads a bit like a teenager, and not a grown woman. [/quote]

Instead of insulting me, why don't you ask me if there are other examples that I think might be abuse.  It's people like you when women do reach out you've already decided there's nothing to believe. Your post is a royal insult to all women who try to check reality when there is emotional abuse. Not all abuse ends in bruises.  this isn't the whole story. Moron.

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We're not mind readers. You provide information, and ask for feedback based on what you've provided. And many people have.

The tone with which you're responding to people makes me feel sorry for your DH. I'm a woman myself. I grew up with an emotionally abusive and manipulative parent, who always thought himself to be the victim. You might want to work with a professional to figure out what your own responsibility is in achieving "reassurance" or some kind of peace in your life, instead of blaming everyone else. I'm sorry you're not receiving all the answers you thought you were going to get or wanted, but sometimes opposing viewpoints can be an opportunity for growth. Good luck.[/quote]

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