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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes I dated a guy who was reserved, not super communicative.  I think they make up for it in bed--the need to express themselves comes out sensually since they are unable verbally.  A friend had the same experience.  But those are difficult partners to have.  It's basically a social or emotional immaturity you're dealing with.  And then with the lying.  That's not good.  I would get away from this person and move on.  Seriously.  Good sex is nice but good relationships are better and better for your life and future.  Good luck.[/quote]

Yes, you're right about the good sex. I guess since its so good I focus on it, but surely it could be like that with someone else. I'm older and I have kids so I'm not worried about wasting my youth. I am worried that staying fwbs with this guy will keep me attached to him and stop me from finding a better relationship.  I think when this started I really did just want an fwb, but now I'm realizing I want more. It's funny because my rethinking began when he was saying what he liked about me, and one of the things was that I didn't want more, as in a full-blown relationship.  But ever since he said that I've been thinking wait, I think I do want more.

When I met him I was coming off a really bad breakup. I think I was having problems feeling connected emotionally to a man. At one point he kept asking me how I feel but I just could not say the words. Now he's cold and I think he's lost interest.

Plus there's the lying.  It's close to a deal-breaker for me. When I caught him in it we laughed about it, but it does make me wonder what else he's lied about. It seems like if you'll tell one lie you'll tell more. [/quote]

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