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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm very sorry. I recently lost my mom after a long degenerative illness. In my last conversation I told her I loved her and that [b]I didn't want her to struggle anymore for my sake. I told her that I wanted her to rest.[/b] My heart goes out to you. [/quote] This is very important. Tell him you love him very much and you'll miss him, but his spirit will be close to you always (if he's religious and it would not bother him to talk about afterlife), but that you know this body he's in now is worn out and you don't want him to be in pain and struggling in this phyisical form to be close to you in it. Tell him it's ok to go to a place where there's no suffering. I do believe that our loved ones hold on to life for our sake, and that it's important to tell them it's ok not to suffer any longer.[/quote]
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