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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]To me it's a red flag that your DH can just unilaterally decide how often you host his parents. [/b]4 nights a month with my in laws would drive me batty and DH and I would end up in therapy for sure. Others are perfectly happy to have family stay for weeks on end. It's not about who is right, it's that your DH isn't respecting your opinion. That is especially important if they come while you are home with the baby and he is at work, or if you end up doing most of the work. A compromise would be ideal - they can come once a month but stay in a hotel, or they stay with you but come every 6-8 weeks. Or once a month with you but for only 2 nights. You get the idea.[b] If your DH isn't willing to budge, it may be time to try therapy. If you can't get on the same page now, it will only be harder as time goes on.[/b][/quote]

Totally agree.  You deserve equal say in what happens with your life, OP.  It is not DH's right to unilaterally make all decisions without consideration of you. [/quote]

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