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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with 19:51 suggestions. We had a house guest who I loved and was very helpful, but after a couple of months lost complete motivation to get a job. The only thing that made her move was me getting pregnant and putting an end date because we needed the room. I highly suggest making some sort of terms (agreed upon first with your husband) that she get an internship in something that she is interested in pursuing- even if it is unpaid at least she gets out of the house. And then encourage her to get a part time job where she has some income and is socializing with others. If you and your husband don't need rent, you could agree upon a rent to charge her, but just save it and when she moved out you can give it back to her- just don't tell her this is your plan. It would be a nice little best egg for down payment on an apartment. [/quote]
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