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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Friendship with a mutual underlying attraction.  I don't want to give up the friendship but am attracted to two men simultaneously and married to only one of them.  I imagine that time will force the friendship to sever both ties, but I am trying to picture a world where I can have both as long as nothing becomes physical.  Like, is it ever ok to have a flirty friendship??[/quote]

To above P, why do say that time will force a separation?  Do you think the OM will move on?  Is the OM married?  How long have you known the OM?[/quote]

Well, my guess is that time will force a separation because both of us are married with kids and we have a pretty strong connection to each other.  I will never let things get physical, my family is my world, so it is my hope that in time the feelings will fizzle and we will be left with just a friendship.  My gut tells me that it will not go down like that, but that's my goal and I will try not to let things get flirty so that maybe my actions can lead it that way.  I hope that the OM will move on but his wife isn't into being a wife anymore, so unless he chooses to separate and then finds someone else dating then maybe that's how he will move on.  I truly want the best for him which is ideally for him and his wife to find their way back to happiness and for us to remain friends.  We've only known each other 3 months, but our  bond and friendship has been rather instantaneous.  [/quote]

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