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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jesus Christ...does anyone in this town have a happy marriage?

I'm engaged. This page tells me we are eventually going to be unhappy and hate each other. My husband will cheat on me, I will be blamed for not putting out enough and spending too much time on our kids, and then, for financial reasons, we will stay together, in misery, for the rest of our lives, wishing we never met each other.

Yay.[/quote]

Nope DCUM is just a place a lot of people come to discuss their unhappy marriages and divorces.  There are also a few here that are very happy.  But my guess is if you aren't having issues, chances are you aren't looking for a forum to discussion relationship issues.

But maybe this is a good forum to read to see what the common issues are that result in people being unhappy and unfortunately divorcing.

I came here after a breakup from a LTR.  It helped a lot and I've learned a lot like:

- Relationships/Marriage require work.  That isn't a cliche statement..it is true.
- You shouldn't sit around and think things will just "work themselves out".  You need to bring up issues with your partner, communicate frequently, and be proactive.
- The honeymoon stage wears off.  That is normal.  Happy couples aren't all lovey dovey forever.  Work toward what you and your partner wants out of the marriage, and continue to communicate.
- People change.  If you aren't cool with your partner possibly changing in the future, then you may not want to marry them.

These are just a few of the things I've learned.  And in my next LTR, I think I'll be a better partner because of it.[/quote]

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