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Well, there actually is an issue that should be considered a clear negative. She said she wanted one kind of relationship; he said he wanted another kind. She ended the relationship because their objectives differ. Mature way to handle the relationship issue. Instead of accepting the end, though, he re-initiated. Nothing had changed, he simply wanted to gratify his needs despite the conflict with OPs needs. Sure, he's honest about wanting what he wants. Great. Honesty is great. He's being honest about disregarding OPs needs because they don't suit his needs. That's not great.[/quote]

Disregarding OP's needs....LOL....good one.

When he called her last time, she could have said no thanks.  But she didn't.  Ever hear of personal responsibility?[/quote]

Ever hear of respect? Ever hear of kindness?

Remember, she did say no thanks. That's when respectful, kind people respond by saying okay, and then refrain from calling again. Her responsibility for her decisions does not relieve him of responsibility for his decisions.[/quote]

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