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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Take a small piece of paper. Write the word "dignity" on it. Fold it up and tuck it up your sleeve. When you feel weak throughout the day, take it out and read it. Repeat every time you feel down.

You already know this, but you just need a gentle reminder that you deserve to be loved the way you want to be loved. Something tells me you are a kind and sensitive person so maybe you are more susceptible to falling for a man who is nice even if he's not right for you. This guy might be a perfectly nice guy. He's honest, which is a good thing. But he's not for you. Your guy is probably out there right now with a note up his sleeve waiting for you. Just kidding but you get the idea. Take care and try to be gentle with yourself as you pull away from this unhealthy situation. [/quote]

OP here.  Thanks for this.  I did as you suggested and wrote dignity on a piece of paper and put it in my pocket.  I have been moping around the house the past few days (off of work this week) doing nothing but look at my phone - waiting for him to text.  He is probably with someone else.  I know the best thing for me to do is concentrate on my kids as well as start trying to date again.  I have had not so great luck at online dating.  I feel that it is really easy to say:  go out and date again, however, in my experience it is not that easy.  Its tons of work and getting to the actual date takes awhile.  Ugh, I am feeling sorry for myself and I hate it.  [/quote]

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