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Reply to "met love of my life on match, but don't think he can handle my kids..."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, are you and him already living together? Anyway, from what you stated it sounds to me like he is not really "father figure" material for your children and not even for his own child or even for children in general. Some people just are indifferent around children and he seems to be one of those people unfortunately. Since your own children are so young, then yes this is most definitely a huge deal-breaker because your children will have another ten years at least where they will be living under your roof and under your care. Whomever you decide to have a relationship with OP, MUST be someone who is comfortable around young children and must be someone who is okay with the chaos and disorder that living with young children is about. This guy is far from it. Plain and simple. This relationship has absolutely no staying power. You can do the right thing and let him go today. Or you can opt to stay and let this thing just crash and burn on its own. I would do the former because why prolong the heartbreak?[/quote]
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