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[quote=Anonymous]I'm PP @9:49, and I want to kind of respond to @14:02 - yes, he is correct that men and women will initiate based on looks - the meat market.  As a result, people will misrepresent; women do this as much as men - men lie about height and hair more, women about weight more.  
It is also true that the better looking you are the easier it is, and that in person, you get a chance to show them your personality.

There's a pretty easy cure for this: do not waste time dicking around "online".  Meet them, fast, in person.  Even if their pictures are current, there is zero substitute for in-person communication: body language, demeanor, the sound of your voice, etc.  Meet them somewhere public and safe - no giving out personal information in advance - for a low-cost (time and $$) in person meeting.  Coffee, one cocktail.  15-30 minutes commitment, tops.  Don't wast time on emails, etc.  No need for elaborate escape plans.

Also: personally, as much as I love nice-to-look-at women, I preferred OKC because of their lengthy questionnaire.  There were many women who were not the number one ranked on their photos alone, but who I could just tell were vastly preferable people to spend time with (for me) and were therefore a lot more attractive.  So, if you want to get beyond just meat-market photos, I highly recommend OKC. [/quote]

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