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Would you tell a man not to marry a woman after they are engaged.  No one ever thought a proposal would happen.  Now everyone is too scared to say what we all are thinking.[/quote]

I would only do this to a close friend or family member.  If I were close to them, they'd probably already know I wasn't a fan of their GF.  So they wouldn't be caught off guard if I said something after a proposal.

I've done it one time.  I won't get in to why I disliked his GF, but he knew I did.  Once they were engaged, I sat down with him and just said: "I love you man like a brother.  I am happy for you no matter what you decide to do in life.  But I feel I have to tell you that marriage is not required man.  Make sure you REALLY want to spend the rest of your life with her before walking that aisle.  I'll support you in whatever you do.".  And left it at.  Never brought up again.

She cheated multiple times, they've divorced, and he has been back/forth with her for years.  Oh well.[/quote]

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