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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. That's just it, I don't think there's any obligation. Spouse thinks that because relative got lots of family help (including from us), there should be.[/quote]

Wow why do people make things so difficult for themselves??  If your relative keeps saying "Wow, you really have your hands full!" and has babysat a bit before, and this is bothering your husband THAT much and you're also "disappointed", stop grumbling and just ask the relative if they're willing to watch your kids more often!  Sounds very possible with all the comments you say they make that they're willing but want you to ask for it.  Maybe they don't feel comfy offering, you never know what it is, but geez be grown ups and have a conversation about it!!

Not a conversation that assumes an obligation, because let's be real clear, there isn't one.  But a conversation because your relative brings it up and you guys want it so badly.  Just talk about it.  WHy is that so hard these days for so many?[/quote]

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