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Here is what many people miss in their marriages - a sense of newness and a friendship between a man and a woman.  Yes, ideally your spouse should be your everything, but they are not.  You could have a wonderful marriage but you still might enjoy flirting with someone else who does not see you as a spouse or a co-parent.  So, I am not judging you at all.  I do want to  tell you though that for women this kind of emotional connection is a precursor to a romantic one.  Your friend has realized that, and also realized that you are giving her something that she is missing - the feeling of a man leaning on her emotionally and so she is feeling valued by you.  She has also realized that it is neither healthy for both of you nor for her marriage.

Obviously, her marriage and family is more valuable and based on reality than your internet friendship and flirting. She is trying to stay on the right path and break the emotional habit of being with you online.  This is hard for you.  She is being honest to an extent and wants to nip it in the bud because there is 1) no future with you and 2) her marriage is not broken that she needs a change.

Respect that. Know that it is not you and that it is very hard for her too.   It is also time for you to find some hobby to fill up that time that she and you spent together. Do not go in search for a replacement. You need to do something for yourself but not with another person.

Now, if only I could take this same advice.[/quote]

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