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[quote=Anonymous]I think part of the problem is that you don't respond to what he says. He sends you a plan and you should either say yay/nay to it and be done. Instead, you ask him whether he prefers Alternative XYZ. I get that you are trying to be nice. But OP, I get this in my family of origin a lot and it's maddening. It's as if what I say has no meaning -- let's offer her twelve other alternatives. With my mom, it always goes something like this: Me: I'm going to make myself a ham sandwich, okay? Mom: Okay honey. Or, I could heat up some lasagne for you. Or make you pancakes. Or would you prefer if I order a pizza for us? Me: No mom, I really would just like a ham sandwich. Mom: I could also defrost you a steak. Me: Ending up screaming....no.[/quote]
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