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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get that it sucks, but I also believe that in life as mature adults, we have options as well.

Life is what we make of it + if one is truly miserable in a marriage, then who says you have to suck it up and stay miserable for any amount of time?

We live in a free country and no one can dictate how you live your life.

Everyone is accountable for their own choices in life.

Sorry if this sounds harsh to you, but I have always had to live w/every choice I have made in my life, good and bad.

So should everyone else.[/quote]

just remember that, along with this comes a huge hit to the self esteem.  as in, my spouse is not connected to me, is not even trying, i must be unlovable. when your self esteem takes such a hit, it is hard to push yourself to make  changes because you are totally depressed and think that this is as good as it gets.  until something happens (likely, meet somebody) and you realize that, hey, my feelings to matter, and i am lovable and desirable.  only then are you capable of making the hard choices to leave.[/quote]

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