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:roll: Or maybe he's feeding you the typical blame-the-ex line and exaggerating, and his family actually likes her.

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She cheated on him, and is still with the man she cheated with. His whole family is happy for her and the new guy because she was able to move on and be happy in life again. That was what bothered him. But, he never said anything about her being the cheater and catalyst for the relationship ending. He told them things weren't working out, he probably wasn't being a good partner, so they went their separate ways and that's why it ended. I mean, it could be bullshit, except I know she is living with this guy and I know his family doesn't think she cheated on him.[/quote]

My family is like this.  My mom cheated on my dad, and is still with the guy.  But my dad was far from perfect.  He treated my mom quite badly.  It doesn't justify her cheating, but he did.  And he has my stepmom thinking that everything was 100% my mom's fault.  And of course she believes it, because she doesn't want to believe that her husband is the kind of guy who would be mean to his wife.  But everyone else gets along with my mom pretty well, because they saw it all go down and know that my dad is was not an angel.  And my grandparents still cared about her and she would even visit or talk with them from time to time.  So, yes, the ex may be awful.  You want to believe your husband, and believe the best about him.  But there is probably more to the story, and blaming the ex is a classic new partner/stepmom mistake.  [/quote]

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