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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im in my twenties, so maybe a minority here, but i prefer text. I dont need to meet you for your to break up with me and i dont want to reveal my emotions. [/quote]

You're one cold bitch.[/quote]

No, she (and the rest of the people who advocate email, text - [b]NON-INTERACTIVE[/b] - methods) are just cowards.  That's what it's really about - avoiding a situation where the dumpee might say something back.  Doing it by phone is lame too, but at least you're showing the dumpee that they deserve the respect of a conversation with you.  Dumping someone by doing the slow fade, or by written word (text, smail mail, email), or worst of all just disappearing, so they can't react to you (or can't react where you can see it) is just a way of protecting yourself from feeling bad about hurting someone.  Be an adult, not a baby and face up to the reality that having relationships involves hurting and being hurt.  Yes, it's harder work, because you have to make a big effort to figure out how to do it with as little pain as possible, but then, maybe that's the right, respectful and honorable thing to do?

Disappearing is acceptable after one date.

The slow fade, a text or an email are acceptable for up to three dates.

Three dates and up, at the minimum a phone call.  Doesn't have to be in depth or lengthy, but you owe them a conversation[/quote]

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