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[quote=Anonymous]Partially OF HER OWN MAKING does not cut it OP. that means you must accept your responsibility.

That being said, if you are being abused as you claim, you are no different than the women that post here who are abused. It's not easy  but you need to get out. Call a domestic helpline.

I myself was in an abusive relationship for years. It finally came to the point that I was hurt physically, and legally he police had to intervene. Truthfully, I could have left before, but it was easier when the police defined it. Looking back, I had lots of justification earlier to leave, but I didn't. I just had excuses why I "couldn't". Imagine..  Once his hands were actually around my neck enough that I was unconscious, I COULD.

IF she's that bad, then leave. Don't tell her you're leaving. Just do it. Buying time, telling her, etc. then you're complicit. I was. I didn't deserve the treatment I got in the end, but you know wha. I allowed it by making threats, promises, and announcements.

Get out. If you believe it and she's bad bad as what you say, then get out. Don't announce it on DCUM. just do it, go live with a friend.

It actually sounds like you're emotionally unavailable to her, based on your "fantasy land" statement. But you know what- it doesn't matter. If your relationship is that broken, do both of you a favour and LEAVE. no promises, no blah blah, just go. [/quote]

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