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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Since you specified a "dumb move" rather than like, a personal quality (not smart, etc.) - I'll say flakiness. These days men (and I do mean MEN, not boys - I'm in my mid-30s and not dating young guys here) will ask you for a date, then want to reschedule several times, or cancel and you don't hear from so you write them off, then you hear from them and they want to go out again, etc. 
It's happened several times to me and my single friends. You can't tell if they're OBOing you (Or Better Offer aka trying to juggle more women than they can handle/keep straight) or if they are just naturally ditzy. [/quote]

29 man here. I do OBO however women my age mid twenties to 31/32 play FOMO as as well so it is an issue of both sides playing Mutually Assured Destruction.

If i tell a woman, "hey lets get coffee this week or a drink sometime" then most likely i do string it out until the last minute.

However, if i say "I want to take you out on thurs at xxxxtime at such and such place and then go and do this" or "lets meet for brunch and then go do xxxx activity at this place and time". Essentially making concrete plans that include a location, time, and day - then it is obvious i have put thought into wanting to see you and have made it a priority. In this case I have never flaked in my life and have always kept up my end.

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