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[quote=Anonymous]I never mentioned this before but I dated a "Frat star" at my school.  One day we were all partying, and we moved to a different room kind of at the back of the house, where only certain members were at, away from the main party, so certain substances could be performed.  Everyone was having a blast and they shut down the lights so it became a backlight party, which was really fun.

Then my bf asked me if I wanted to see the special room.  I eagerly nodded.  He led me over to a really small hidden doorway, and told me to get on all fours and crawl through this little tiny (seriously, it was probably 2 feet tall, or around that- just large enough to crawl through) passageway.  So i did, and after about 4 feet it opened up into a tiny little room, maybe 5 feet tall and 5 feet wide.  Might have been even smaller than that- I couldnt stand, and I am 5'5.  My BF was 6'3 and was totally hunched.  There was one thing in the room: a couch.  I was laughing and thought it was fantastic- totally delighted with it all in that naive way of 19 year olds.  A couple of my BF's frat bros were standing outside the room, watching my reaction, and were laughing with me about how cool it was.  A couple of them kind of joined us (it was a tight fit) before we all crawled back out.

A year or so later, after we had broken up, I invited a good, trusted friend to join me at a party at the house.  She informed me that she had been raped (they drugged her drink, she woke up to him on top of her) in the house that I started thinking about that room, wondering how many girls had been subjected to something like that. I have no idea why they never tried any of that with me, since I was young, friendly, and naive as hell.  But I'm so grateful they didnt, and my heart just breaks for any girl who had to go through that there.

TL;DR:  Frats are a lot of fun when they want to be, and a nightmare for women when they want to be.
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