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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If OP were a husband posting about cheating on his busy wife, you would rip him to shreds. [/quote]

From my observation, this may not be true in all cases, but this website does trend towards being more supportive of women who are unsatisfied compared to men.  Certainly, there is more "get what you need girl!" attitude, while most threads started by men that are similar are met with condemnation.  I don't think it should be all that surprising given that this website is what, 2/3 women?

Anyway OP, sorry this is the situation you're in, I'm sure it isn't easy, especially with the two kids.  My wife an I have two little ones ourselves, and while neither of us travel for work, my job responsibilities have skyrocketed in the past year and she's gone back to school and is balancing grad work with her job.  We try to be supportive of each other as best we can, but there are days where I wake up and it occurs to me that we haven't had sex in a week or longer, because of conflicting schedules, stress, or cycles (she's a night person, I'm a morning person).

I'd try to talk with him as best you can on the night or two he is home, explain what you need, and see where it goes.  If you have family or can hire help to take the kids for a night, it might help with his lack of interest, if you have several hours to build things up.  I'd stress avoiding the cheating thing if you can, there's a wealth of free videos at various websites you can watch if you need some visual stimulation, though I understand it doesn't really replace human touch.

Good luck to you.[/quote]

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