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[quote=Anonymous]I am a fan of being direct in a respectful way because often people like this don't do well with beating around the bush. Plus thanking her or saying you'll considerate reinforces it. Here are some things I might say, "I appreciate your wanting to help, but we'll let you know if we want your advice or assistance." "I know you just want to help, but we see one of the best pediatricians in the area, and she is the person who we ask for advice when needed." "When you raise kids you can do things your way. We have our own parenting style." You could also try behavior modification with her. Be really sweet whenever she is pleasant and appropriate, but whenever she tries to give advice, walk away, change the subject or just give her The LOOK, no verbal response and then go right back to doing things your way. [/quote]
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