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[quote=Anonymous]I guess my post in the non-explicit relationship forum was locked. Very annoyed that happened. I only posted in case others don't read this family forum.

I want nothing to do with my mom but I can't help but feel partially guilty. My mom cut contact with her sisters once she left us and found my step-dad. They didnt reconnect until I was 17. My dad never had any family and without my mothers family, it did leave a hole. I'd imagine what it would be like to have cousins and family reunions. It worries me that my children will have to grow up why those same feelings. Most of my family no longer talks to me because I cut contact with my mother.

I know DH wants the best but he sees how hurtful it is to not have my families support. We are no longer invited to family reunions, holidays, birthdays, etc. It can be isolating at times and he doesn't want our children to suffer that same reality. Of course he cares about our children safety and will becee allow ger contact if she crosses the line, but he is hopeful. He's an incredibly good-hearted man. I know what I'm doing is best but it doesn't make it any easier. I told him its end of discussion and I'm sticking to my guns on this. My mom deserves nothing from me and deserves no right to be apart of our lives. [/quote]

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