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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.

Cousin is not my aunt's child. Her kids are not in any position to care about her well being. My aunt wants to live at her own home because she feels capable. She isn't. She actually needs a lot of help and I'm getting tired of having to manage 2 households. I volunteered to pay $3000 a month in living expenses for the assisted living place. Cousin feels that family takes care of family. Cousin has even suggested that I move her into my home.

I care about my aunt, but I am getting tired of this. [/quote]

Where are her children?  Do they care about her well being or have no cash to assist or ability to assist?  Are you willing to pay $3000 toward assisted living [unrealistic  estimate]  if she still owns the house?  Who will pay the bills for the house?  My parent insisted on staying in the house-then needed assisted living-bills for both.  POA didn't get the place on the market.  If you are not her POA and are not in her will as executor then you need to bow out of any financial arrangement.  [/quote]

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