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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks for those who took the time to respond.  Parent is able bodied and of full mental capacity, perfectly capable.  Parent cooks and cleans for sibling, cleans up after animals (all day), and is generally used by sibling for money.

Parent paid monthly rent to sibling for first four years; then sibling (knows systems very well and works them accordingly, in her favor) had parent's ss raised considerably (don't know how!!??).  Parent has medicaid/care (whichever applies) for all health care and prescriptions, no out of pocket health care, no exigent circumstances or exorbitant expenses.

Sibling has alcohol and spending problem.  Sibling has taken money from other siblings, systematically, in past.  Sibling wants help in care of parent, now that sibling has spent all of parent's money on herself. Parent had considerable savings after other parent died, but wrote considerable checks to sibling "just because" (no reason).

Could sibling get in trouble for squandering parents' money?   Could sibling be held accountable?

In other words, parent was fine to live with sibling when sibling wanted parents money and belongings; now sibling wants no responsibility, a few years later.

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